photo credit: Susan Lecente
One day my daughter will be old enough to read this. And when she does she will already know that she had a mum who fought against the odds to help her reach her full potential. I love you to the moon, around all the stars and back to the earth a million times over. You are my sunshine, and an absolute delight. Everyone who meets you adores and cherishes your humour, kindness and empathetic nature. We are so lucky we got you.
To get to where we are now was a long journey, one where I researched and found the best people qualified to assess and diagnose autism in girls. That is the crux of it right there. So many professionals do not have the right knowledge to diagnose high-functioning girls. They may have had years of experience, but do they have experience with girls and autism? This was the question I always had in the back of my mind. And when I came across GP’s, Paediatricians and Speech Therapists who would tell me there’s nothing to be concerned about, I knew better. So I persevered and found the right people to do assessments and eventually a diagnosis of Autism was confirmed.
From having a diagnosis, we were able to access funding to begin early intervention. Without this funding money we could never have afforded the level of intensive early intervention required, and even then it still wasn’t enough. Coming to terms with not having enough resources for the level of intervention I know has better outcomes was one of the most heart wrenching experiences. Eventually I found solace in the fact that she has me as her Mum, someone who has studied psychology and trained in behaviour therapy. I was doing so much with her everyday and well before a diagnosis that her potential would be reached. And it has. My daughter is starting school, she does not have an aid and has begun making friends. Yes, there are going to be challenges, as social life becomes more complex I will need to be attuned to my daughter and where she is at emotionally and psychologically, so that the right kind of support can be there every step of the way.